Staying safe

Social media and privacy

Online safety

It's important to remember that the digital world, just like the real one, comes with its own set of challenges.

When you're online, you've got the power to build a kinder, fairer, and just generally more awesome community. Just like you'd look out for your mates in person, do the same online. Stand against cyberbullying, think before you share, and respect others' privacy—you know, be the legend you are IRL.

If you're looking for tips, tools, or just a bit of advice on how to navigate the online world responsibly, check out some of our information below, or head to the eSafety Commissioner website, which is the Australian Government's independent online safety regulator. We highly recommend hitting up this site as they have a stack of resources for young people to stay safe online and have resources and information on a range of topics including how to navigate difficult situations, how to protect yourself online, bullying, and dating and relationships.

Understanding the ins and outs of digital rights and what to do if things get dodgy is really important and you can also report abuse via the eSafety Commissioner website.

Before you post just take a moment to think that the internet remembers everything, always! Your digital footprint is kind of like your digital shadow, and you want it to be a good one, trust us!

Stay smart, stay safe, and stay connected!

Social media

If it didn't happen on social media, it didn't happen right? When you upload photos or video to social media, you run the risk of not knowing where it may end up.

Don’t let a photo or video ruin a future. What can start out as a bit of fun may end up being viewed by a wider audience than originally planned including your family, media and even future employers. And this doesn't just relate to sexting!

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Yeah, in terms of social media at Schoolies, it was um, one of the things you sort of had to watch out for. We’d been told in school what to watch out for, what photos we take and what we put on social media.

So, we obviously put up photos of just us and our friends but, and anything we took of people who didn’t really want to have that online, we’d be kind of careful not to put that up but, obviously there were times when you saw people putting up photos probably they weren’t too happy with.

I know a couple of my friends, they took some little risky kind of photos and I know one of them like, she ended up ending a relationship over it. So that was one of the down sides of it I guess, just over something stupid as well.

My group of friends were really respectful of each other just because like, you are going in to a new chapter of your life next year and there could be like, companies looking at your profile and you just need to respect that because they are taking a massive step in to their lives so yeah, you should talk to them before you go posting anything. So yeah we all did that and there was, yeah, no dramas.

But yeah, just making sure that, yeah you’re not posting too much like, inappropriate stuff even. Because I know like start losing their inhibitions and think they can post anything because it’s Schoolies but yeah, just be a little thoughtful about it all.

Before Schoolies, make sure you:

  • set your profiles to ‘private’ or ‘friends only’ and only accept friend requests from people you know and trust
  • tell your friends to ask for your permission before uploading and/or tagging a photo or video of you (and do the same for them)
  • set privacy settings to allow you to review photo tags before they appear on your profile and your friends’ newsfeeds.

During Schoolies:

  • Think before you share. Would you be happy if your parents saw the photo? Would you be OK with a future employer seeing it?
  • Be a good mate and don’t share embarrassing photos of your friends online. If your friend is in an embarrassing situation a real friend would help their friend, rather than photographing it.
  • Remember that you may be filmed or photographed at any time. Schoolies have been charged after their stupid behaviour was caught on camera, so be responsible and aware.
  • Don’t film crimes or assaults to promote them online as you could be charged and face heavy fines or a criminal conviction.
  • If a friend has tagged you in an inappropriate photo ask them to remove the image from social media. A real friend would respect your wishes.

Check out the ThinkUKnow or eSafety Commissioner websites for more information.

Sexting

Sexting is the sending of provocative or sexual photos, messages, or videos. They are generally sent using a mobile phone but can also include posting online.

While sharing suggestive images or text messages may seem like innocent flirting or be considered funny, sexting can have serious social and legal consequences.

  • Sending a sext to someone who does not wish to receive it is illegal.
  • Images can be shared with a very large audience quickly and linger in cyberspace for years.
  • Employers often conduct social media and Google searches on prospective employees. Future boyfriends and girlfriends may also do the same.
  • If you are under the age of 18, you may be charged with producing and disseminating child pornography or be put on the Sex Offender Register.

What to do if you receive an unwanted sext

Think before you sext

  • Have you considered how the receiver will feel or are you breaking the law?
  • How would you feel if your sext was shown to someone else or leaked online?
  • Are you about to make a good choice or does it fall in line with your family’s morals and expectations?
  • In general, taking some time to think about it will often help put things in to perspective.

More information about sexting can be found on the eSafety Commissioner website.

Image-based abuse

Image-based abuse occurs when intimate, nude or sexual images are shared without the consent of the person in the image or video. This includes real photos, altered, drawn pictures and videos. It is also image based abuse if someone threatens to share an intimate image or video of you.

Examples of image based abuse:

  • an ex-partner sharing intimate images of you on Instagram or Facebook without your consent
  • someone photoshopping an image to make you look naked and then emailing to others
  • a stranger taking intimate images of you without your consent.
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Image-based abuse (revenge porn) occurs when intimate, nude or sexual images are distributed without the consent of those pictured. This includes real, altered (e.g. Photoshopped) and drawn pictures and videos.

One in five Australians experience image-based abuse.
Image-based abuse is the sharing of intimate images without consent.
This can occur amongst young people, by an ex-partner or current partner, or for sexual exploitation or extortion.
Imagine how you would feel if you felt naked everywhere you went.
How would you feel in front of your mum and dad?
How would you feel out socially?
How would you feel in front of your colleagues?
What if it was your trust that had been broken?
What if it was you that felt naked?
What if it was your partner that shared your image without consent?
It is not okay to share intimate images without consent.
If you or someone you know is impacted, there are things you can do.
If you are witnessing image-based abuse you can help stop it.
If it is happening to you, you can report it.
[Person 1] "What if this happened to you?"
[Person 2] "Yes, you."
[Person 3] "Yes, you."
Image-based abuse is never okay.
You can report image-based abuse esafety. gov. au/imagebasedabuse.

For more information on image based abuse including reporting and available support, head to eSafety Commissioner website.

Last updated:
9 June 2025